Facilitating Futures: From OT to Community Catalyst

Facilitating Futures: From OT to Community Catalyst

Lucy Pedler leads conversations that inspire rural women to make positive changes in their lives, businesses and communities.

As an Ambassador for WoTL (Women Together Learning) on the Eyre Peninsula, the expert facilitator hosts workshops, events and training that connect and empower local women.

It’s a role she relishes – but it’s also a far cry from her early career working in healthcare.

“I started out life as an occupational therapist,” Lucy says. “I studied that after school and worked as an OT for a few years before I moved to the EP with my husband George in 2010. I worked here for a while, but then we started to have a family and over time OT didn’t fit with that stage of my life.”

Looking for a change, the mother-of-three shifted into working alongside George, an agronomist, in their Cummins-based business, George Pedler Ag. “I was doing the admin, finance – all the exciting stuff that women often fall into in a farming or small business,” Lucy jokes.

A Women in Ag course through the Eyre Peninsula Landscape Board gave her additional skills, and then connecting with Ag Consulting Co’s Jeanette Long ignited the spark of a new idea.

“She put me in touch with WoTL and said ‘you should get some things happening over here’. She really took me under her wing and invited me to facilitate workshops and events with her. I learnt so much from her.”

Lucy Pedler presenting at Thriving Women 2022 Conference

Above: Lucy co-leading the closing session at Thriving Women 2024, and at home with her family, right.

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WoTL’s inaugural Thriving Women Conference was also a turning point.

“I went to the first Thriving Women Conference and that was a catalyst for me. It got me thinking about making a change and starting facilitation work. I realised that there was a real cross over with some of my skill set and I could do something in that space.

“It was also such a great opportunity to meet other people, listen, learn from and be embraced by other inspiring women.”

Combining her OT skills with the new knowledge and understanding from her training and Jeanette’s mentoring, Lucy began facilitating WoTL events on the EP from workshops through to training courses.

Over the past six years, as a WoTL Ambassador she has hosted events with visiting experts in everything from agricultural resilience and farm strategic planning to setting up an office and communicating effectively.

“There’s a real hum in a room when you get it going well and the conversations are flowing,” Lucy says.

“It’s not about you knowing the answers. There’s such a collective knowledge in the room and seeing that drawn out in a session is amazing. Together, the participants share their knowledge, experiences and figure things out and I find that inspiring.”

Lucy Pedler facilitating a WoTL Workshop
Rach working in farm office

Above: Together with George, Lucy runs George Pedler Ag, whilst also facilitating Regenerate Rural Women with WoTL

Creating connections between rural women is also a highlight of her work. 

“Often two women working in ag aren’t going to sit down with a beer like men and talk about how the business is going. It’s so important to create opportunities for women to talk about their farm or business work, because it’s not something they might naturally talk about together at the football or school drop offs.

“I definitely see the impact of our sessions. A lot of it is confidence – women leave workshops and say they’re going to go home and talk to their partners or families about making changes, ask questions about why they are doing certain things, or take on a larger role within certain aspects of their business. They leave feeling empowered.”

Lucy’s work with WoTL has led to a thriving career in facilitation and expanded opportunities with other agricultural bodies including Livestock SA.

It’s also given her the confidence and skills to take on facilitation and leadership roles in her community.

For the past six years she has facilitated the Youth Opportunities personal leadership program for Year 10 students at Cummins Area School, equipping youth with the skills to overcome adversity, build resilience and optimism, and prepare for their future.

Over the past five years she has also headed the group behind the development of the Cummins Community Sports Club, which opened in March 2025. It was a mammoth task bringing together multiple user groups to build a shared facility for the whole community.

“WoTL has helped me feel more confident to take on community leadership roles,” Lucy says.

“We’ve just wrapped up the new clubrooms. As a combined club project, it was an unusual situation. There were ups, downs and a lot of negotiations, but I felt all of the facilitation work I’ve done equipped me to lead this project.”

Looking ahead, she sees the role of WoTL and its Ambassadors as even more important, with a dry start to the growing season.

“This year I think it’ll be so important for women here to have those connections and opportunities to come together. It’s the driest start anyone has seen here for a very long time. It’ll be a time of heightened emotions and stress, and those connections and the role WoTL can play will be crucial.”

 

Bridging the Gap Between Fear and Action

Bridging the Gap Between Fear and Action

Dili Schoenberg is no stranger to change.

She swapped the hustle and bustle of city life in Sydney for a quiet, rural life when she moved to Clare, South Australia, for her first job out of university.

And, more recently, she switched from a successful research career to working as a full-time farmer in Manoora in SA’s Mid North.

But that doesn’t mean she finds each new change easy.

“In fact, I think it gets scarier with age,” she says.

A former grains researcher at SARDI for over 13 years, Dili has extensive experience in pre-breeding and data analysis. In her career, she worked with a team developing new genetic traits for plant breeders that have led to the development of new crop varieties.

But while her work has equipped her to take a scientific and analytical approach to on-farm challenges, Dili felt she needed some extra support to gain the confidence to step into her new role as a mixed-cropping and livestock producer alongside husband Daniel.

Now, Dili says it’s the network of support she’s built and the training she’s undergone – including WoTL’s Stepping into Leadership (SiL) Program – that has helped her navigate the career change.

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Above: Dili at the 2023 Stepping Into Leadership Graduation.

The Stepping into Leadership Program came at a pivotal point in my life,” she says.

I was mid-career, juggling the demands of working off-farm, learning everything I could about agribusiness, and raising two young children.”

While she loved each aspect of her busy life, everything happening at once left Dilli feeling the need to reassess things – and the SIL program helped guide her through that next stage.

In particular, the program pinpointed my values and what truly motivates and fulfills me. For me, that’s connecting with people, learning, and being useful,” she says.

This is also probably why transitioning into full-time farming initially felt so terrifying. Coming from a scientific, off-farm background, I was stepping into a world where I was losing that familiar ‘work’ network and lacked some of the basic skills (like steering heavy machinery in a straight line!). WoTL’s leadership program helped me focus on what I could bring to the table instead of what I couldn’t.”

That focus on her skills, strengths and future goals set Dili up for success.

Alongside learning how to drive in straight lines, within 12 months of graduating I’d also taken on a role as a WoTL ambassador for the Mid North, running seven agribusiness workshops with incredible experts being brought into our local area,” she says.

Farming requires wearing so many hats—mechanics, logistics, heavy machinery, agronomy, OHS, and agribusiness, to name a few. This year, we’ve experienced the worst seasonal rainfall on record. The skills and knowledge I gained through the WoTL courses helped me step back, see the bigger picture, and map out a strategic way forward.

“Having said that, there’s still a lot for me to learn, and I’m definitely learning a lot with each day on the job.”

Rach working in farm office

Dili is keen to combine some of her research expertise with her growing on-farm experience and the knowledge gained through the SIL program to try new ways of working and plan for the business’ future.

“I’m keen to look into the some of the farm data on yields, soils, crop sequences and weather to see if we can uncover any patterns in our paddocks that may be helpful for future crop and soil management planning,” she says.

The biggest lesson for me has been understanding and managing risk. On-farm, it’s crucial to identify your biggest risks—both production and business—and try and develop sustainable models and strategies that work for you. To us, that has meant doing those five to 10-year (business) forecasts, calculating those rolling averages and recalibrating as needed… and continuing to pray for rain.”

Between the confidence that Stepping into Leadership has given her to “bridge the gap between fear and action”, and building connections with others in a supportive local community, Dili feels empowered to settle into her role on the farm and as a WoTL Ambassador.

Recently selected as a member of Grains Producers SA’s new Young Grains Producers Committee, Dili is looking forward to growing her network, continuing her learning and representing her community.

“I’m particularly passionate about advocating for small family farms and how we can support them into the future amid rising uncertainty in markets, production, and costs,” she says.

“I want to continue to be more involved in our local community and give back, because I’m so lucky to be able to be able to connect with, engage with and learn from and alongside so many amazing individuals in our little farming corner.

A Focus on Progress over Perfection

A Focus on Progress over Perfection

Stephanie March wears many hats: farm business manager, health advocate, and passionate community leader. But her journey to this point hasn’t been an easy one.

As a busy mum of two, including a young son with a rare medical condition, Steph has had to navigate the challenges of rural life and healthcare access while also managing the demands of a growing family farm.

Starting her career as an occupational therapist, then a teacher,  Steph now leans into the idea that her career diversity is an asset to all spheres of her life. She’s using two decades of experience across multiple sectors to drive her passion projects and create business outcomes for the farm. But, of course, her days are never typical, as she continues to learn that personal and professional flexibility are the key to making sure she can ride out the challenges when they arise.

Rach working in farm office
Rach working in farm office

Above: Stephanie at the Stepping Into Leadership 2024 graduation

Realising her potential

And while Steph’s goal-driven personality has ensured her success in a range of fields, it was when she discovered WoTL’s Stepping Into Leadership program that she was able to realise her capacity as a leader – both on the farm, and as a rural health advocate.

“Working with Stepping Into Leadership has really pushed me out of my comfort zone. But in doing so, it helped me recognise and own the value I could bring not just as a farmer, but as an advocate and voice for positive change,” she says.

“I was a bit nervous attending my first WoTL event. I wasn’t sure I had the right experience to be part of an ag-based leadership program. But I’m so glad I took that first step and got involved.”

Steph has attended various WoTL events, and is also one of the most recent graduates of the successful Stepping into Leadership program.

“One of the key lessons I’ve taken away from WoTL is the importance of progress over perfection. I’ve been a goal-setter most of my life, which has at times held me back, being worried that my ideas or initiatives weren’t quite polished enough to put out into the world.”

“WoTL taught me that sometimes you just have to start, even if your idea is not 100 per cent ready. You can always refine and improve as you go. So that’s what I’m doing.”

Rach working in farm office
Rach working in farm office

Above: Stephanie presenting at the Thriving Women Conference in 2024.

Taking the next steps. 

It’s this mindset shift which has been crucial for Steph as she pursues her off-farm passion project, Merci Co- a community-focused initiative that aims to support and connect rural families navigating challenging health circumstances.

“As my husband says, Merci Co is the itch I need to scratch. It’s my way of using my own experiences, and the connections I’ve built, to make a real difference. Plenty of people have paved the way before me and made our family’s experience in the health system much easier, and now it’s my turn to do what I can,” she explains.

Through Merci co, an online blog and soon-to-be-launched website, Steph is not only raising awareness of the unique health challenges faced by rural people, but also advocating for improved services and community support. It’s a cause that is deeply personal, given the medical journey of her young son.

“Having a child with complex medical needs has been incredibly isolating at times. But the WoTL network has been a real positive for me. The women involved understand the realities of rural life, and they’ve encouraged me to use my voice to drive positive change – as many of them continue to do so as well.”

From the outside, we can see that change is already underway thanks to Steph’s persistence and passion, leveraging her leadership skills to secure a seat on key advisory committees at the Women’s and Children’s Hospital. These positions provide a crucial rural voice and perspective that would otherwise be missing from those conversations.

“It’s about showing up, being brave, and making sure rural families have a seat at the table,” she says.

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Above: Steph at home with the family.

Of course, balancing her advocacy work with the demands of the family farm business hasn’t been easy, but Steph credits the WoTL program with helping her find the confidence and strategies to juggle multiple priorities.

“Another thing WoTL taught me, was the importance of delegation and not trying to do everything myself. It’s helped me become a more effective leader, both at home and in the community. The Stepping into Leadership program has been a game-changer for me. It’s empowered me to step up, speak out, and create the change I want to see – not just for my family, but for all rural communities.”

Steph was a crowd favourite during the 2024 Thriving Women Conference held in Hahndorf in August this year, where she ran a Toolbox Talk on rural advocacy work – an area well known and passionately pursued by many rural women.

“It’s also really important to acknowledge my family, as our journey is a true team effort. We face challenges with positivity and gratitude, with each member playing their own vital role – whether that be on farm, in hospital or in the community. I’m continually both amazed and appreciative of all that my husband, daughter, and son do. We’re also deeply grateful to my mother and father in-law, who purchased and established the farm before we started here. Their ongoing support has been essential to both the farm and our growth—we wouldn’t be where we are today without them.”

Story Update: Congratulations to Steph, who was announced as a recipient of a 2025 AgriFutures Rural Women’s Acceleration Grant to continue her advocacy work. We love to see the impact our Stepping Into Leadership participants continue to make, read more here.  

From Career Crossroads to Farming with Purpose

From Career Crossroads to Farming with Purpose

After graduating from university not once, but twice (with two teaching degrees), Rachael McInerney only ever had her mind set on a career which would see her guide and develop the minds of her young students. Fast-forward a few years, and yes, she’s still teaching the kids in her hometown of Riverton, but she’s also forged her own path as a new farm business leader in South Australia’s Mid-North.

 

Working alongside her husband Mark and his parents, Rachael has spent the last two years establishing new systems in HR, administration, WHS, budgeting, finance, compliance and business management and structure, ensuring her fifth-generation farm is using best practice principles when it comes to daily business management operations.

It all began when (unsurprisingly), between raising her three kids and working part time as a teacher, Rachael was also handed the task of taking on the farm’s bookwork. A story we hear all too often. However, it was when she saw an email from their agronomist, sharing a flyer about a WoTL two-day HR masterclass on the Yorke Peninsula that she thought: “that’s exactly what we need”.

“So I signed Mark and I up for the session, thinking we could both get something out of this. I’d never attended a WoTL event before and didn’t really know what to expect. I left that event full of new knowledge, yet still had so many questions and unknowns, so I launched myself into learning,’ Rachael says.

“What I quickly found was that this session was a game-changer for us, and that we could be doing so much more on the farm in regard to administration and business management. I never really expected the professional development journey I was about to take.”

Rach working in farm office

Opening up to opportunities

So, Rachel began her new (additional) career as a farm business and administration manager. She asked “thousands of questions” as she puts it – and dove head-first into all of the PD opportunities that came her way. Prior to this, Rachael had been at a crossroads in her career and worried that her teaching career had to get put on hold while she helped on farm.

“I love teaching, and was about to start moving into more leadership roles, but the farm needed someone with the skills and close understanding of its own dynamics to guide it through these changes, so I took it on,” she said

“It didn’t take long before I could see just how important my role was in the business, and I became quite passionate about continual reflection and management improvements – so Mark and I set a goal to aim for best-practice when it came to managing the family farm.”

The other thing Rachel quickly began to notice was that her story wasn’t uncommon. Women – and specifically those who married farmers – were taking on roles they had no training in. Furthermore, the farmers were often taught everything they knew from the generation before them (a wealth of practical knowledge nonetheless) – but times had changed, and so farming practices, regulations and legalities were all dictating how the family farm businesses had to operate. We as the new generation have had to learn to manage this and need to change with it.

“I feel like farming is becoming a lot more adept now when it comes to business management skills. As an industry, we’re so lucky we have groups like WoTL in SA that can help guide us with learning, and also provide networks that we can seek advice and support from.

“I also wanted to make sure that the partners were gaining from these PD opportunities as well though, so we ended up encouraging another WoTL workshop in Clare that promoted both partners of the farming team to take part, and what we saw was that there were a lot of husband and wives doing it together. This was certainly the first time Mark and I had done any training together. A shared and collaborative vision with Mark was exactly what I needed to finally take ownership of my new role and understand my new why.”

And all of the training was paying off.

Not only did Rachael notice that her farm management practices were improving, but that other women in her same role within the area were seeing what she and Mark were doing, asking questions and taking part in the workshops too.

“When I spoke with other women in similar roles many asked for advice on what they should be doing. Some people even asked me to come to their farm and set things up for them. I didn’t have time for that, so instead I supported the need to bring some workshops to our Mid North region that anyone could attend. I just wanted to help show that there’s great information out there if you’re willing to go along to the sessions,” Rachael says.

“Mark will say how thankful he is that I went to that first WoTL workshop and started us down this path. We joke now about how I don’t think I could replace myself on the farm because there’s no one who could take on the roles I do…just yet!

“We just figure if we can set this place up with all the right systems and structures, then I can leave the farm in a good place for our kids one day if they choose to pursue it.”

Rachael also described how lucky she was that Mark’s parents were organised and prepared for succession and open minded to the new generation to come in and make changes in line with new farming business practices.

Shannon Pearson at Stepping Into Leadership Graduation - WoTL

Above: Rachael and Mark at a professional development session.

Extending the impact 

She also talked about the legacy of WoTL training in the Mid-North area. She believes it has been a catalyst for creating a new women’s ag cohort, which comes together around once a month to share farming challenges, provide top quality speakers, share advice and support and work through some of the trickier topics that you can’t just ‘go and ask your next door neighbour’ about.

“I think this is the kind of impact that will improve our whole district’s understanding of farming best practice, and especially it shines a light on the areas that women have traditionally had to deal with on their own.”

“The ripple effect of programs like WoTL are invaluable. It helps people form relationships and support networks off the farm, which are critical to progressing this industry. The younger generation coming onto farms, particularly the young women can now see their role on the farm more clearly and with more respect and acknowledgement for the pivotal role they play in supporting farm business.”

So what is Rachel’s official title on the farm these days?

“There’s plenty of names we give each other, but I think for now we’ve settled on something like Farm Business Manager,” she says.

Embracing Challenge and Change

Embracing Challenge and Change

After working in retail for most of her life, Shannon Pearson never imagined she’d become a fulltime dairy farmer. It was a transition that started off small. At first, she helped her mother-in-law with the business bookwork. Then there was a season helping out with calving on the property near Mt Gambier in SA’s South East. The more she did, the more she realised she enjoyed farm life. The only thing holding her back from taking on more was a lack of confidence in her skills. Now, thanks to WoTL’s Stepping Into Leadership Program, Shannon has found the confidence and a network of supportive connections which led her to embrace fulltime farming.

Shannon met her husband Adrian, a third-generation dairy farmer, in the late 1990s and the couple built their home together on his family’s farm in 2003. “I’d worked in retail forever and when I moved onto the farm people asked if I’d be milking cows soon and I always said ‘no thank you I have my own fulltime job’,” she said.


“I had my own job in retail management, and then I took time off when I had my two boys, but I went back parttime afterwards. Every year my husband asked if I wanted to help with the calving, and I always said ‘no thank you’. “After about six or seven years of him asking, I said yes. I went out and helped the woman we had doing it back then and I found I really enjoyed it. After a couple of seasons, she left and I was thrown into it. “Around that time, I also took on a bigger role with the books as my mother-in-law was wanting to do less.”

When her husband needed shoulder surgery, Shannon took on more farm work, helping out in the dairy with milking cows. With every new farm challenge she took on, Shannon looked for ways to upskill. She completed online training with Dairy Australia, but wanted to build on her knowledge further.

 

 

Shannon Pearson - WoTL Ambassador -  feeding a calf on her dairy property

WoTL’s Stepping into Leadership Program

“I do love learning new skills and I love being challenged. A neighbour sent me some information about the WoTL Stepping Into Leadership Program and said ‘you should apply for this’. She said she’d done it in the previous year and she’d learnt a lot from it. So, at 10pm one night I sent the email off and then forgot all about it, until I heard back that I’d got in.”

While she was initially nervous about joining the program because she wasn’t a born and bred farmer, Shannon soon realised she was in good company.

“I walked in there thinking ‘I’m way out of my league here’ after listening to some of the others tell their stories. But you very quickly realise that just because you all did different things, nobody had a lesser voice. We all had our own strengths and things to bring to the table.

“I was the only dairy farmer there, but while we were all so diverse, our experiences were quite similar. We all connected very quickly.

“The biggest benefit for me through the program was by far the personal development aspect. I’d gone into it wanting to build my skills and knowledge, and I did do that, but I also learned so much about myself and that I already have so many skills. The whole process was a huge confidence builder.”

It was a section of the program focusing on individual values and strengths that helped Shannon understand and appreciate the value of the knowledge she’d already acquired, and how her unique skills could benefit the family business.

“The training we did on those personal value and strengths was fantastic,” she said.

“I’d done something similar in my retail training years ago, but revisiting it in the ag industry context was so helpful in understanding what I know and can bring to the table, and how other people think and work. It really does help you refocus the way you look at things on a personal level, on a family level and on a work level as well.

“There was lots of practical training as well – the section on being on a board or governing council was definitely relatable and very helpful not just from an industry perspective, but also with work at a community if you’re volunteering at local clubs or other organisations.”

During the program, Shannon was paired with fellow Limestone Coast dairy farmer Michelle Hamilton as her mentor.

“I’d never really had a mentor. I was still building my networks within our dairy community, so WoTL paired me up with Michelle. It was invaluable, I could ask any random question and she would share her knowledge and experience in such a friendly, casual way. It was great to have someone’s different outlook on things, and different ideas.”

Shannon Pearson at Stepping Into Leadership Graduation - WoTL

Above: WoTL Chair Susie Green, Shannon Pearson and Minister Clare Scriven at the 2023 Stepping into Leadership Graduation.

Becoming a WoTL Ambassador 

The confidence and connections she gained through the program led Shannon to become a WoTL Ambassador and she’s now hosted two Regenerate Rural Women programs in the lower Limestone Coast.

Shannon was also invited to join Dairy Australia’s training program to become a Dairy Ambassador – something she admits she wouldn’t have had the courage to do before completing SIL.

She credits the program and WoTL’s focus on educating and connecting female farmers with her newfound confidence.

“With WoTL, the unique thing with their programs is it’s women only learning together and it creates a comfortable environment. It allows a bit of vulnerability to let your guard down and make the most of a situation,” Shannon said.

“For anyone considering the program, I’d say absolutely give it a go.

“Whether you go in for the professional development, to build on your own personal development or to create new connections and friendships, it’s all worthwhile. Everyone walks away with something from it.”

Back on the farm, Shannon is putting her new skills into action regularly – and she is continuing to upskill and grow.

“I’m still learning farm skills, I don’t know all the ins and outs of all of it, but I have now built that confidence to say that the things I have learnt and the skills I do bring to the farm and the industry are valuable,” she said.

“I’ve absolutely loved my change to working on the farm fulltime. I love the flexibility it created for our life with our boys, working with the cows and calves, working with family and a great team and I love the challenges because I’m learning new things all the time.

“I’m embracing the change and I’m loving the change.”

 

Taking the ram by the horns

Taking the ram by the horns

When 25-year-old Ellen Arney stepped into the role of Farm Manager of her family’s sheep stud, she knew there was going to be a steep learning curve ahead. Whilst some may consider her young to be managing a farm business, Ellen has a deep appreciation and enthusiasm for sheep breeding and together with a love of farming, she was ready to take the ram by the horns.

“I’ve always been interested in farm work, pushing sheep along. As I grew up, I just learnt how to read them and loved going around the paddocks with Dad,” explains Ellen.

Inverbrackie Border Leicester Stud is located in Finniss, South Australia. For her thirteenth birthday, Ellen was gifted ten stud ewes from her parents. Perhaps this was the start of the succession plan, because if you ask Ellen, she was always going to come back to the farm. However, there were some conditions that had to be met before this happened.

“After finishing boarding school, I did a gap year where I worked on the farm for part. Dad said to me before I come back permanently, he wanted me to work away for a bit. I was already enrolled in a Bachelor of Agriculture and Business and Armidale University in New South Wales so off I went.

“The study showed me that there are so many opportunities in ag, so many ways to specialise if you wanted to. But with farming, you kind of do all those bits in farming itself, not just doing the one thing all the time and using all your skill sets.”

When COVID hit in 2020, Ellen moved back to South Australia and completed her final year part-time, whilst also working on the farm. Her Dad, Lynton, was ready to start the succession, and Ellen was offered a managerial position the following year.

“Mum and Dad decided to buy a house off the property. Dad comes out most days and asks what jobs I want him to do for the day. I’m not mechanically minded, and there are still things I can’t do like fix a tractor, but he can teach and show me.”

 

Ellen Arney and her dog

WoTL’s Stepping into Leadership Program

Following her participation in Livestock SA’s Agri-Silience program, WoTL’s Stepping into Leadership (SiL) Program came highly recommended by several people to Ellen as an ideal leadership course for women in agriculture.

“I was looking to participate in a leadership course because I knew I was young to be taking over the farm at 25. At the time, I was only just old enough to do the SiL Program!” explains Ellen.

“Many successors don’t get offered this opportunity (taking on the management of the family farm) until they’re in their 40s so I knew I was going to be doing things so much earlier.”

Ellen had a few reservations about participating in an all-women’s program. Whilst attending other rural women’s events has given her a greater appreciation of the vital role rural women play in the agricultural sector, she was often left feeling like she didn’t quite fit the mould.

“I guess for me, I don’t have that support of a husband or farmer.  I am the farmer whereas a lot of the women played more of a support role, which is great, and they absolutely have an important role to play. But I associate myself with being a farmer, so these events didn’t quite resonate as much for me.

“What I liked about the SiL Program is that it wasn’t just a two- day course like some of the other (leadership) courses on offer. It required an ongoing commitment, and I was going to be made accountable, which I guess is what pushed me into it.”

As it turns out, Ellen realised she had more in common than she realised with the diverse group of participants, who whilst all connected to agriculture, all had unique backgrounds and stories to tell.

“When we first met, I felt like everyone had known each other for months which made us feel more at ease and allow us to be more vulnerable together. We can just talk at another level.

Susie Green, Ellen Arney, Minister Clare Scriven

Above: WoTL Chair Susie Green, Ellen Arney and Minister Clare Scriven at the 2023 Stepping into Leadership Graduation.

Following her completion of the 2023 SiL Program, Ellen is forging ahead and continuing to learn the ropes in her Farm Manager role under the guidance of her dad.

“Since finishing the program, I find that I communicate differently. The way I communicate with Dad is different. I often find myself stopping when something is hitting a nerve and thinking before responding. Learning how to reframe questions and conversations has been such a vital skill.”

Lynton has also noticed changes in Ellen.

“Dad has said things to me like ‘I’ve noticed a lot of differences in you. You’ve changed quite a bit.’  But I’ve also noticed that I’m not so upset all the time, I used to take a lot of things personally. The dynamic between Dad and I has changed.

“One of my pet hates used to be him talking over me to the dogs. One time when this happened, I took a breath, and offered a boundary. I just said “Next time, whoever’s with the dogs gives the instructions.

“All the expectations that were put on me, were by me. I’m still learning new things. I have to remember he’s had 50 years of experience whilst I’ve had five!”

“Understanding different personality types has been incredibly beneficial. Whilst I can see the benefit of doing the SiL Program later once you have the experience behind you, I’m glad I know a lot of this stuff now, the life skills and learning how other people work is so valuable. It’s really set me up for the future.”

Ellen acknowledges that the SiL Program can be confronting, as a large focus is developing an understanding of yourself.

“It’s really rewarding to have that level of awareness. It just changes how you approach life going forward by offering a different perspective.

Ellen’s gift of ten ewes has now grown to her managing a flock of 2000. Whilst she can’t necessarily claim ownership of them all (yet), she did recently purchase her first parcel of land from her parents as the succession continues. Whilst she is still growing and learning, Ellen continues to lean on her SiL network for support.

“We try to catch up every year. We’re just able to talk at another level after our shared experience.”